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Does America’s relentless pursuit of convenience ultimately harm it?

Ted Bauer
16 min readSep 25, 2022

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About a month into COVID, I was walking my dog and listening to a podcast with Steve Kerr and Gregg Popovich (basketball coaches). I was at an intersection in a wealthy neighborhood. No one was coming car-wise, so my dog and I started crossing the street, but it was hot out, and my dog was lagging. As we’re crossing, this Suburban driven by a middle-aged woman is approaching and then starts basically barreling down on me. So I had to yank my dog’s leash and this lady is honking at me screaming stuff like “Get your damn dog out of the street!” as she whooshes past me.

Right around the same time in that podcast, Popovich — who I think has five NBA titles, if I’m not mistaken — is discussing how America has become too convenient. I glanced to the right and realized that a house there had recently been listed for $600,000 or so, and there were some Amazon Prime boxes littering the porch.

Convenience.

In this new Mark Manson newsletter, you have a plug for this book, and this corresponding paragraph:

For example, instead of ordering eight pounds of your favorite meat online, being forced to walk down to the butcher each week and chat to them about weather and business and sports while they cut each slice, week after week, month after month — well

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Ted Bauer
Ted Bauer

Written by Ted Bauer

I write about a lot of different topics, from work to masculinity to relationships and social dynamics, I.e. modern friendship. Pleasure to be here.

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