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“Being busy” has become currency

Are people truly that busy, or is it now just something you must say all the time?

Ted Bauer
24 min readOct 10, 2022

The “Big Issues” Series

Masculinity

Fertility and infertility

Empathy

Life’s bullshit

Failure

Sexuality

Friendship

Being performative

Convenience

Gender and the workplace

Productivity

Purpose

Being busy

Burnout

Onboarding

How does “woke” relate to “work?”

Yesterday I put together a deep dive on burnout, and the causes and reasonings therein. I think in a general sense, there’s definitely a lot of burnout and exhaustion globally right now (especially in US/UK/etc.), and the notion of stress and burnout must be tied in some ways to the idea of everyone being so busy, right? Makes sense. But is there a bigger picture around “busy?” Seems so. Maybe we should spend a few minutes on that.

First question: Are we truly, really that busy?

Look, to a certain extent we all love to be busy — it gives us a feeling equivalent to being high. I get it.

But you’ve all probably worked with one (or more!) guy or girl who is constantly using how busy they are as an excuse to do absolutely nothing else at all. This person does this even though no one has any clue what their output actually is. They can usually get away with it because of one of these factors:

The forms this takes

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Ted Bauer
Ted Bauer

Written by Ted Bauer

I write about a lot of different topics, from work to masculinity to relationships and social dynamics, I.e. modern friendship. Pleasure to be here.

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