Emotional burnout at work = now the norm

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Written before about emotional exhaustion and work stress, and this will be a bit similar on emotional burnout.

Fact is: work is very stressful for a lot of people. It’s kind of mind-boggling because we have a super advanced tech stack these days, and the entire point of tech is supposed to be “making things easier.” But what often happens is that people view it as “another thing to manage,” or the tech means you can get clients in Seoul whereas previously you couldn’t — so now it’s more work, more relationships, more KPIs, etc. It all piles up.

The elephant in the room here, of course, is that work is closely tied to self-worthfor many (especially males) — so even if you’re not working super hard, you’re likely to tell everyone how much you’re working. (We all know a version of this person.) The first world tends to deify the workaholic, so many of us attempt to present as such. It increases our own feelings of relevance.

That, too, can present as a form of emotional burnout — you essentially need to keep up a lie (“I’m doing 85 hours/week!”) for a decade or more. It’s taxing.

Point being: emotional burnout is very real. But just how pervasive has it become?

Some stats on emotional burnout

Here’s some new researchon burnout, stress, and loneliness. A snapshot:

Here’s where we generally net out, then:

What now?

Can we reduce emotional burnout at work?

Sure. But it requires a few leaps of faith.

Number 1 would be setting up an actual culture. We talk in broad terms often about “mission and vision,”but these things do matter. Probably the best definition I ever heard was a culture is “the things you permit to happen.” Define what you want to be and then act along those lines.

Number 2 would be clearly defined priorities. Most organizations lack this, which means it’s relatively easy for each manager and each silo to assign their own priority tiers. This creates “sense of urgency” management, which can directly lead to emotional burnout.

Number 3 would be strengthening support networks. This is because there’s a high degree of power in friends at work, as well as gratitude at work. Also remember: this is a very lonely, socially-isolatedtime for many people right now. Work is a place where friends/connections can emerge, and that can lessen emotional burnout.

The problem here is that for all these things to happen, you need competent leadership (not always normative), people who can respond to situations instead of always reacting to them, and organic support networks as opposed to HR-laden drivel.

Most places do this all wrong, and that creates festering emotional burnout. You get to work and it’s task task task spreadsheet spreadsheet spreadsheet meeting meeting meeting, which ultimately results in … what, exactly? Not a promotion. This is part of why the “Gig Economy”is rising up. Standard work just doesn’t, well, work for people anymore. Emotional burnout is a huge part.

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